The Followership Vacuum

by Rushworth M. Kidder of the Institute for Global Ethics
Over a leisurely iced tea at a sidewalk café in Aspen, Colorado, the U.S. sociologist and author Amitai Etzioni made an eight-word assertion that still rings in my ears.

“The concept of leadership,” he told me, “is 50 percent followership.”

We’d been talking about a society so mired in individualism that it had neglected its sense of community. In Etzioni’s terms, a “me-istic” culture had edged out the “we-ness” that unites people into groups and builds followership. “The reason we don’t have great leaders at the moment,” he noted, “is that the followership is not ready.”

His words have never been truer, but here’s the kicker: Our conversation took place 25 years ago. In the intervening years, leadership has become a buzzword — and a profit center. Since he and I talked in the mid-1980s, the institutions that teach and develop leadership have created an industry worth an estimated $50 billion.

At the same time, followership has slowly been coming to the fore. Leadership guru Warren Bennis noted in 1993 that “the longer I study effective leaders, the more I am convinced of the underappreciated importance of effective followers.” And Harvard University scholar Barbara Kellerman, in her 2008 book Followership: How Followers Are Creating Change and Changing Leaders, writes that “so long as we fixate on leaders at the expense of followers, we will perpetuate the myth that [followers] don’t matter much…. In fact, as a result of forces now converging, followers are more important than ever before.”

Yet for all that effort, something’s still amiss. Ask people today how they feel about their leaders and you’ll hear a lot of raspberries. Last December, Gallup found that Congress was viewed unfavorably by 83 percent of the public — the highest negative rating in more than 30 years of polling. Rasmussen Reports finds that House speaker John Boehner is viewed favorably by only 45 percent of the electorate. Even President Obama commands only a 53 percent favorability rating, according to Gallup. Things are even worse beyond the political arena. Ask about the honesty and ethics of corporate executives, lawyers, bankers — the typical leader-generating professions — and the responses border on outright scorn.

These ratings speak to Prof. Etzioni’s point. Favorability doesn’t measure a leader’s skill, effectiveness, or influence. It measures the willingness of a leader’s constituency to follow his or her lead. Seen that way, even the president’s 53 percent favorability is hardly a bugle call for followership.

And that raises a key question. Has this $50 billion leadership investment been misspent? Have we overdosed on leadership programs teaching that success means standing out from others and having power over the pack — programs that create the illusion that everyone who isn’t a leader is a failure? Along the way, have we so undernourished our sense of followership that students equate “we-ness” with weakness and aspire to the competitive “me-istic” model of looking out for #1?

Part of the problem comes from the notion that leaders and followers are polar opposites — that you’re either one or the other. In truth, all of us fill both roles. The school principal pulled over for running a traffic light is, at that moment, no longer leading: He’s under the authority of an officer with a badge. When the county commissioner drives her son to soccer practice, she’s not in charge of where she must park or whether he’s committed a foul. When the corporate CEO sits on a library board chaired by someone else, he’s not the leader. And if the hospital’s chief surgeon forgets to book her vacation flights before the seats sell out — tough.

But where, in their training, are leaders reminded of these multiple hats? Where have they learned that, in this multidimensional thing called life, they’re leaders in one thing but followers in many? If that fact hasn’t been made clear, should we be surprised when those trained as leaders muscle in and try to lead when they ought to follow — belittling the cop, booing the ref, browbeating the board chair, or berating the travel agent? If they were taught only how to become #1, what made us think they’d know how to act when they’re #2?

Don’t mistake my point: I’m all for success and I think leadership programs are hugely important. But when they cultivate excessive individualism, they tilt the table dangerously away from community — and therefore from ethics. Ethics, after all, is not egocentric but sociocentric. It arises more easily in those who think about others than in those who brood about their own personal goals. Identify yourself as a leader, and it’s tempting to claim exceptions that don’t apply to others — to put yourself above the law. Identify yourself as a follower, and it’s hard to avoid the values of respect and responsibility and the habits of obedience and humility that bind us to one another and to community.

That may be why so many leadership training programs only now are beginning to include an ethics component — and why they find it difficult to do so. After all, ethics goes against the “me-istic” grain. If we teach leaders to respect followership only so that they can become even better at controlling others, we’ve missed the point. Followership isn’t a means to somebody else’s end. It’s the essence of community-building — which, in the end, is what good leadership is all about.

©2011 Institute for Global Ethics

Living Healthy, Hopefully and Happily

Courtesy my friend James Ostroot…Consider this a manual for living healthy, hopefully and happily in 2011 (and any other time):

Health:

  • Drink plenty of water.
  • Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
  • Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
  • Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy.
  • Make time to pray.
  • Play more games.
  • Read more books than you did in 2010.
  • Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
  • Sleep for 7 hours.
  • Take a 10-30 minute walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

 

Personality: 

  • Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
  • Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
  • Don’t overdo. Keep your limits.
  • Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
  • Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
  • Dream more while you are awake.
  • Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
  • Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
  • Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
  • Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
  • No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
  • Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
  • Smile and laugh more.
  • You don’t have to win every argument.

 

Society:

  • Call your family often.
  • Each day give something good to others.
  • Forgive everyone for everything.
  • Spend time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.
  • Try to make at least three people smile each day.
  • What other people think of you is none of your business.
  • Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

 

Life:

  • Do the right thing!
  • Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
  • God heals everything.
  • However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
  • No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
  • The best is yet to come.
  • When you awake alive in the morning, thank God for it.
  • Your inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

 Here’s to a happy and blessed 2011!

Sustaining In Tough Economic Times

In 2008 the United States experienced an economic meltdown.  Some say it is now a full blown recession and others claim indications of a recovery.  Either way, there is no money.

When there is no money, salaries and benefits remain stagnant, training budgets shrink and equipment we have taken for granted is no longer affordable.  Anyone looking to compensation and benefits for work fulfillment is in serious trouble.

So if there is no money, what do we look to for fulfillment in our work?  What kind of environment can leadership create that will sustain the organization, its people and the integrity of both through difficult economic times?

The answer lies in values, specifically values that have proven to sustain over time.  The answer lies in the attitude with which we view our work and public service.  In difficult economic times, we are forced to look inward and ask, “Why?”  Why am I doing this?  If it isn’t for the money (which it certainly isn’t right now) why do I choose to work to serve others?

Certain values are universal.  We know them to be because enough people in enough places over enough time have stated, written and lived them to be.  All kinds of values fall into the category of universally accepted values.  The list includes things like trustworthiness, respect, fairness, responsibility, caring, mutuality and generativity to name a few.  These are values that have been stated in various ways by various cultures over various times.

There is a different set of values as well.  Kind of a subset of these universal values, but not quite.  The different set of values holds a characteristic that the universal values may or may not hold — they get people jazzed up to respond to leadership.

When leadership and these values that sustain meet, wonderful things happen.  Values that create vitality and sustain an organization include:

  • Regeneration – Investment in people for the greater good
  • Integrity – Aligning with something greater than ourselves
  • Humility – The desire to learn and serve
  • Optimism – A confident and realistic outlook of the best for the future
  • Receptivity – Making time and room for people
  • Responsibility – The commitment to seek a high lievel of excellence

How these made the list?  They are not stated values, they are recognized values with a track record of creating an environment that shows energy and growth.  Growth both in character and effectiveness.  These are values that have helped governments overcome corruption, they have helped organizations grow and stay centered and they have helped individuals grow in their professional life.

Why we work will always trump what we work for, but this comes with a caveat.  The caveat is this, eventually the economic situation will turn around.  It always does.  Organizations wishing to keep valued employees must eventually make up for lost economic time.

Reinforcing Desired Values

If you are interested in effective vibrant orgaizational values, you need to know that it is not enough to just say, “These are our values.”  Values are not picked like apples off a tree, they are lived then recognized.

Start by listening to the stories you hear in your organization.  What are your people talking about?  What are they fond of?  What are they not so fond of?  From these stories you will start to recognize your values.

If you are not seeing vitality, ask yoursel and your employees what needs to change in ourselves as individuals and as an organization that will bring vitality.  Always start with behaviors.  This can be a humbling process, but the benefits far outweigh the initial discomfort of honest introspection.

Steps that can help you set a positive attitude for your organization include Identifying – Telling – Living your values.

We identify values through listening and introspection (see above).

Once identified, it is important to tell them both in writing and in word.  Telling reinforces.  Research shows that people respond to what words are put before them both in writing and in word.  Speak your values and write your values.

It is not enough to simply speak and write values.  We must also live them.  Most communication is non-verbal and the people who work in your organization are intelligent perceptive people.  They will spot a disconnect between actions and values in a heartbeat.  You are not fooling anyone.  Be prepared to fully live any value important enough to identify and tell.  Commit to your values.

Processes are important for reinforcing values.  Processes provide a fair mechanism for evaluating behaviors.  Many professional organizations have identified effective processes for reinforcing values.  Do some research and find what works best for your organization.

A word of caution, a little process goes a long way.  Nothing will oppress and burden people more than layers of bureaucracy and rules.

Processes should serve people, not the other way around.  Use process to keep the values in front of people.

Patience is essential.  Eventually people will disappoint us and we will disappoint them.  That is human nature.  Behaviors you see today are not the same as you will see tomorrow.

Growth and vitality are measured over long periods of time.  It may be tempting to react situationally.  When this temptation comes, remember that you put a lot of work and effort and went through a fair amount of pain to identify your values.  Honor them by sticking to them.

Develop a culture of apology and forgiveness.  A lot of these go a long way.

The Problem With Values

If values are not supported by a firm foundation and a system of accountability, they become subjective.  We tend to view ourselves morally in a more positive light than we view others.  This is human nature.

A solid foundation is vital.  We cannot self-evalute values so they must be held to a “higher science.”  Virtue serves this purpose.

Cardinal virtues, theological virtues, classical virtues, we can name many different virtues.  Naming is not enough. We must identify virtues.  Virtues make their subject good.  Virtue is the foundation of values.

We grow through virtuous habit. Virtue does this, it moves us from one state of character and conduct to another higher state of character and conduct.

A life that is not growing habitually is a life that lacks virtue.  Without virtue, values are meaningless.  What growth do you and others see in your life?

Integrity

Integrity brings life to values.

We hold many inerests and loyalties in our lives.  In our culture the prevailing  ethic is to compartmentalize our interests and loyalties.  We devote an amount of time and money to a loyalty or interest then move on to the next.  We call the first one we give our time and money to our priority, but it is not really a priority, it is just first in line.

This compartmentalization is what leads to a dual life.  For example, a husband and father can claim family first, spend several hours on a wonderful afternoon with his wife and children then go out at night and carouse with his friends in all kinds of ways that dishonor his wife and children, especially his daughter.  In the man’s mind he has served both needs.

Life doesn’t work that way.  Integrity is the thing that makes our integral parts whole.  When all aspects of our lives work together to serve a greater good, we are acting with integrity.

What is that greater good?  No one but yourself can tell you what it is.  You have to think about it and consider, “Do I have something in my life that serves all my interests together?”

Seek a greater good.  The affect can never be greater than the cause.